- Every successful person has a list of targets to achieve in life.
- The majority of the people wait for life for a Christ-like to change their lives. And it never happens.
- Action can turn your dreams into reality. That is the step that creates a real difference.
A time always comes in our life when we realize the significance of self-growth, and we need it. We want to grow, somehow. But we aren’t sure how to work on ourselves. I experienced this feeling, and I have worked on myself; I changed my life; I have achieved my life goals in a year. And now, I am here for you if you’re struggling for it. I can help you by sharing my exposure because a couple of months ago, I was fighting like you.
I have a long story that can’t be shared in a small piece of paper, but I can summarize it for you from where did I got the motivation and how did I work on myself and how it will change your life.
Find a life goal and purpose
There is nothing more valuable than your life goal. Every successful person has a list of targets to achieve in life.
They are clear what they want to do in their life and they never forget it.
Life objective is a crystal clear difference between a successful & unsuccessful person. Unsuccessful people have temporary inspirations that rule their lives. Whenever they see someone extraordinary, they are inspired and want to adopt his way.
This attitude can make them a copy of their ideal person, but soon they are fed up and distracted by some other temporary inspiration. So they spend their whole life even without knowing what exactly they want to do.
Could you believe that there is no magic in finding a life goal and purpose, but it works like magic in transforming your life? I have written in a guide to finding life purpose & passion. If you follow the given steps in the guide, you will quickly meet yourself at the end.
Invest in yourself
Investing in yourself is the shortcut to work on yourself. If you want to grow and achieve your life goals, then there can’t be anything more valuable than investing in yourself.
How can you do that?
Investing in yourself means to improve your mental approach by reading or listening to experts in different fields. And your improved approach will directly impact your physical life.
If nowadays you’re not certain about something, you’re not taking care of your looks or discussion, or relationships. Once you invest your time & money to buy books or cassettes to enhance your mental approach, you will see magical changes in attitudes towards things.
And it will be better for you not to be a copy of someone else but a real you!
Now a question that remained unanswered is, what should you read? From where should you start?
I suggest you read every book that you can avail of but start with personal growth books. A couple of years ago, I had started with Awaken the Giant Within, a life-changing book by my mentor, Tony Robbins, that turned my way of thinking into something great.
Find a mentor
I never met Tony Robbins. Maybe one day, I could see him & told him that he is my mentor that changed my life.
How did he do that?
Look, the majority of the people wait for life for a Christ-like to change their lives. And it never happens.
No one can change your life but you. If you’re not comfortable with your current situation, that’s why you’re reading this piece, it means you dare to accept the reality that you’re not perfect, and you should improve.
That’s the only thing that becomes a spirit of change.
Regarding answering the previous question, I have been like you are today and there is nothing wrong with it. Even Tony Robbins and Dean Graziosi have put in the time to improve.
I listened to a cassette of Tony Robbins’ book Awaken The Giant Within that assisted me in facing reality, setting goals and achieving them in practical ways.
I followed each and everything that Tony Robbins said and tried to read all the suggested books, on self-growth, financial freedom and relationships. And I felt better control over all the aspects of my life.
So, first of all, find a mentor who is well-respected in their field; they must be an expert in the area, then follow their words to feel the difference.
Last but not least, action can turn your dreams into reality. That is the step that creates a real difference.
Either you dream for your whole life, you fantasize about a beautiful future, although that can attach you in the hope that something will change your life but until you won’t take the first step. It will never happen.
If you want to create a real difference, then surely you will need the courage to take action today and start working on yourself.